Saturday, November 3, 2007

What To Do When Your GirlFriend Is Taking Up Too Much Time And Space In Your Life

By Teddy Shabba Question from A Reader: I meet my girlfriend once during the week and that's great! However, she comes over on Friday and spends the entire weekend at my place. I end up spending all day with her on Saturdays and Sundays. I still go out with my friends on Friday and Saturday nights as she does with her friends and sometimes both. But because she stays over for the weekend, I have no time for myself during the day on the weekends. Sometimes I want to spend a few hours just relaxing by myself and I can't exactly say "I don't want to hang out with you for a few hours; I want to be by myself". She treats me very well and I'm thinking of starting a weekend hobby just to have some daytime hours to myself; any other ideas? Answer: It is amazing how many times a person can find themselves in a situation that you already know the answer to, but don't do it because you scared of what you "think" might happen. Even though not doing it will cause that very thing you think might happen to eventually happen anyways. In this case, telling your woman "I want to spend some time by myself for a few hours" is exactly what you need to do. Odds are she wouldn't mind some alone time either and if not she can find something else to do instead. Finding a hobby is a good idea as well since you thought of it, but not as an alternative only as an addition. Bottom line is you want some alone time and if she cant accept that then she isn't the woman for you no matter how great she might be otherwise. If she wants to talk about it let her know that she is great and that some alone time is what you need as well. Getting in the habit of finding solutions to problems which are her; that don't involve her is a quick way to ruin a good relationship. Whatever you do don't say she is the problem, I only told you that for informational purposes only. Teddy Shabba is a Dating Coach for Men who has a daily newsletter that provides you with a wealth of information on how to be more successful with women. You can sign up for the Teddy Shabba Dating Advice Newsletter for Men now. Also with over 500 articles from a variety of dating experts just for men our Dating Advice and Seduction Article Database is the perfect place for any man. To learn more about How To Attract Women visit our article section Attract Women Today Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Teddy_Shabba http://EzineArticles.com/?What-To-Do-When-Your-GirlFriend-Is-Taking-Up-Too-Much-Time-And-Space-In-Your-Life&id=541268 buy non prescription valium
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